Spending time with the kids actually tells the problems that they’ve been facing, maybe either for quite some time or for a long time. Many times it's not easy for people, especially the parents, to recognize their problems straight away; hence it becomes imperative for parents to spend some time and have some idea about the problems of their children.
There will be different expressions that the children may have,
ranging from sudden fits of volcanic rage, crying, aggressive behavior,
shyness, and whining. These variations in their behavior tell many more things,
and such behavior may be just the starting expressions that they may have. Many
chaotic moments can be known by spending some time with them. When it comes to
preschool children, they also have such behaviors, and the educators in
preschool need to understand these behavioral problems early to work better for
them.
Kidzville Learning Center, a Childcare in Surrey allows children to open up in front of other mates to make them socially interactive and learn to share their thoughts and values with others as well.
The preschool educators start learning the way they need to
respond to such behavior problems that the children face. With the passage of
time in classrooms, educators also start observing many things which keep going
on in the minds of the children. Many kids exhibit behaviors of different
types, and educators start becoming familiar with all such behaviors. In
addition to understanding the patterns of behavior that the children may have
during a period, preschool teachers also need to understand many more things
which can come as problematic behavior.
They need to understand whether a type of behavior is acceptable
or not in a social setting, and there is an assessment system known as ASEBA
which means an Achenbach System of Empirically Based Assessment. This
particular assessment can be used very well to assess the active functioning,
strengths, competencies, emotional and social problems, as well as behavioral
problems in human beings who may be between 1 ½ year and in 90 years.
This process also helps in evaluating the children and also talks
about problematic preschool behaviors such as wandering off, clinging to
adults, whining, hitting or being cruel to animals, needing things in proper
places. These things provide reference points to work for their
betterment.
Things that need to be kept in mind while going through child
behavior problems are given as follows:
Behavior is a part of communication
Joni Kuhn, who is the professor of early childhood education at
Rasmussen University, says that behavior is communication, and she has her own
explanation regarding it that children start expressing their wants and needs
when they don't have the words to express themselves.
She says that we need to understand that they are very young and
they have been alive for a few months only, and at preschool, they are still
not at the proper age to verbally communicate all the things that they have.
She says that a child who is 2 years old doesn't have verbal skills to say many
things, but the child can express many things through behavior.
Adults may be unaware of the number of things they want out of the
kids: There are situations in
which the professor of early childhood education says that many adults are
unaware that there is an unmet need of the children which may lead to many
behavioral issues. Many times adults make the kids get overwhelmed by so many
situations in which it becomes difficult for the kids to behave normally.
Awareness about the stages of development: Educators must be aware of the development of
the children, which becomes essential to understand other things related to
physique, intellect, emotions, social bonding as well as language. Joni Kuhn
says that even if the child who is 2 to three years old says that he went to
the moon last night, the educator has no right to scold or correct the child;
instead, she says that the educator can go through responding in a good manner.
The educator must give the expression of wow! You went to the moon last night.
Great! That’s very nice. In this way, the child starts responding positively
rather than being rude.
Go through the reason behind behavior problems: When children start behaving in the way we find
challenging, we need to go through the reasons without scolding the children.
The professor says that even if a child breaks a toy, instead of scolding the
child, the child must be asked what exactly he found after breaking the toy
apart. Did he learn something as to how the toy was made by breaking it apart?
Such questions will be good for the children to be creative.
Children must get space to solve problems themselves: All children must get space to solve any problem
themselves. They should learn how to work things out on their own which will
make them more creative. Many times things go out of control, especially when
there is a challenging situation, but in this situation, the educators should
not try to solve or take the children out of the situation; but instead, the
educator must let the children start controlling the situation themselves.
A specialist should get to diagnose the problem: There can be some problems that the children
might be facing, and they can be related to disorders or mental health issues.
Here Joni Kuhn says that when it comes to the issues related to the behavior
problems with the children, there are specialists who are either medical or
psychological experts, and they can look after the children to diagnose the
problems.
Kidzville Learning Center, an infant-toddler daycare in Surrey
makes children take an initiative and talk about their emotions and experiences
in class, to their teachers, and friends.
Educators should not try to give any name because of the abnormal
behavior of the children. The professor says that it is the responsibility of
the educators to go through the individual needs of the children and understand
their behavior properly.
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